Finding a mentoring program you're excited about and comfortable with can require some time and thought. The following steps walk you through the process.

Step 1: Decide which type of mentoring you want to be involved in. Ask yourself what time commitment, age of youth, and geographical area you would like to work with and in. If you are seeking a mentor, think about which type of mentoring would be best for the youth. However, be open and flexible to different mentoring programs and focuses.

Step 2: Search our website database to find programs that fit your needs and interests.

Step 3: Call or email the programs for more information. Talk to the staff about their specific application and screening procedures. Don't be discouraged if a program doesn't match your needs or you don't match their needs, instead ask for a referral.

Step 4: Complete the necessary application process of your chosen program.

Application & Orientation Process

Once you've chosen a program, a solid mentoring program will incorporate the following processes to ensure the best possible matches between child and adult. You can expect to:

• Participate in an orientation to the program.
• Complete an application and screening process that includes a written application including a questionnaire about interests, references (personal and/or professional), a background check (sometimes), and a personal interview.
• Be supported by program staff who will provide guidance, if needed.
• Be trained, initially and on an ongoing basis, to enhance your relationship and to inform you about issues facing the youth with whom you are matched with.

Mentoring programs usually have all of the above four points in place or variations of these steps. Feel free to ask questions of any agency you are calling regarding their application and screening process.

It may take a while to be matched with a child. The process may take up to 2 months or longer to complete. Mentoring programs are concerned with the well being and safety of children and volunteers, and their procedures reflect this concern.

Waiting Periods

If you are a youth, parent or guardian looking for mentor, don't be discouraged if the program you contacted has a waiting period or is currently not taking names. Unfortunately, the demand for mentors is bigger than the pool of volunteers. Go ahead and put the child's name on the waiting list or check back at a later date - sometimes the program is able to find a mentor more quickly. In the mean time, seek out and ask someone informally to act as a mentor; like a relative, a teacher or coach, a neighbor, or someone from your place of worship.